Here is my birth vlog for my second daughter born this year. Boy was it difficult. I didn't have medication for either one. Both were difficult and painful but this birth was much more difficult.
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Wednesday, December 18, 2013
Losing the Baby Weight!!!
My son is almost 8 weeks old and I'm already thinking about getting this "baby" weight off. The plan was to take it easy for one month and then start working out. Lets just say, that didn't happen...lol. But even though I am losing weight because I'm breastfeeding, I don't feel like it's fast enough. It seems like every time I go on the Internet or turn on the TV, I see some movie star that has already dropped their baby weight five minutes after giving birth!! And I have to admit, even though I know its not realistic, it still delivers a blow to my pride.
Why are so many women insecure about how they look especially after having a baby? You would think that after giving birth most women would ease up on the self hatred just a little bit and give their bodies time to heal. But no not us, especially not me. As I walk down the grocery store aisle I see so many diet aid products that further remind me that I'm not good enough.
And before you check out, you have to take the walk of shame past the magazines with all the perfectly "airbrushed" women!
Secondly, when will this end? Do we change society or do we continue to allow society to change us? The only way women can raise proud and confident daughters is by first becoming proud and confident themselves. We can't effect a positive change in society with a negative perspective. We first must focus on the good, take pride in who we are and how we look. Just a thought.....
Why are so many women insecure about how they look especially after having a baby? You would think that after giving birth most women would ease up on the self hatred just a little bit and give their bodies time to heal. But no not us, especially not me. As I walk down the grocery store aisle I see so many diet aid products that further remind me that I'm not good enough.
And before you check out, you have to take the walk of shame past the magazines with all the perfectly "airbrushed" women!
Secondly, when will this end? Do we change society or do we continue to allow society to change us? The only way women can raise proud and confident daughters is by first becoming proud and confident themselves. We can't effect a positive change in society with a negative perspective. We first must focus on the good, take pride in who we are and how we look. Just a thought.....
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
Maternity Fashion
When I found out I was pregnant for the second time, I decided I did not want to look anything like I did the first time I was pregnant. I hated the maternity clothing I wore with my first son. I felt frumpy and unattractive every time I got dressed. I also decided that I did not want to spend money on a wardrobe that I was only going to use for nine months. I was able to go my entire pregnancy wearing my normal wardrobe, only buying two pairs of maternity shorts. The following is a video of some of the outfits I wore during my pregnancy. Enjoy!!
FYI: Jersey skirts, Maxi and Empire-waisted dresses are great because they stretch as you grow!!
Tuesday, October 29, 2013
The Truth About Labor Pains
It has been said, "No two pregnancies are the same." The same can be said about labor. The births of my two sons were completely different. For the most part, I knew I was going into labor with my oldest James. The entire process was slow and predictable. Not so much with Jase. I realized my false labor pains (Braxton Hicks) were real once the contractions were 2 minutes apart for 45 seconds each. Consequently, what should have been a casual 20 minute drive to the hospital became a 10 minute high speed race. I was dilated 4 centimeters when I arrived and quickly jumped to 7 centimeters 30 minutes later.
The contractions were excruciating. It was as if each one was competing with the previous one for personal best. I felt like I was dying!!! It was at this moment that I began to say my goodbyes to my husband. The little baby inside of me was trying to rip its way out and there was no way I was going to survive it or I was going to die of a heart attack. My only chance was an epidural which seemed unlikely because I was dilating too fast. The nurse assured me the anesthesiologist was coming, but he wasn't moving fast enough for me. After one of the most intense contractions, I begged my husband to find the doctor. Just as my husband was getting up, the anesthesiologist strolled into the room.
As I reflect on both of my son's births, experience has taught me that two seemingly similar situations can yield two completely different outcomes. This truth goes beyond childbirth but applies to whatever life may hand you. That being said, all we can do is face every situation with an open mind and be prepared to expect the unexpected.
The contractions were excruciating. It was as if each one was competing with the previous one for personal best. I felt like I was dying!!! It was at this moment that I began to say my goodbyes to my husband. The little baby inside of me was trying to rip its way out and there was no way I was going to survive it or I was going to die of a heart attack. My only chance was an epidural which seemed unlikely because I was dilating too fast. The nurse assured me the anesthesiologist was coming, but he wasn't moving fast enough for me. After one of the most intense contractions, I begged my husband to find the doctor. Just as my husband was getting up, the anesthesiologist strolled into the room.
As I reflect on both of my son's births, experience has taught me that two seemingly similar situations can yield two completely different outcomes. This truth goes beyond childbirth but applies to whatever life may hand you. That being said, all we can do is face every situation with an open mind and be prepared to expect the unexpected.
Thursday, October 24, 2013
Creative Pregnancy Costumes
I'm going to a costume birthday party this Saturday and I've been looking for a costume that will flatter my "bump." I just wanted to share some of the awesome homemade costumes that I found.
These costumes are perfect for anyone on a budget!!
These costumes are perfect for anyone on a budget!!
Photos courtesy of coolest-homemade=costumes.com
Sunday, October 20, 2013
Pregnancy Insomnia
There's a lot of information and discussion on heartburn, fatigue, diet, exercise, and rest while pregnant but not a lot of talk about pregnancy insomnia. I started to experience insomnia a month into my third trimester. It was horrible. I experienced difficulty falling asleep and when I did, I couldn't sleep longer than two hours. Once awaken, it would take at least three hours to fall back asleep.
I spoke to my OB/GYN about this problem and her only suggestion was to try my best to suffer through it. Believe me, those were not the words I wanted to hear. I wanted something that was going to knock me out! But most medications that would normally be appropriate for this condition are unsafe for pregnant women. The closest sleep aid medication suggested during pregnancy is Benadryl. But even Benadryl should be used with caution.
I didn't experience this with my first pregnancy. In fact, I was tired all of the time. I was seriously in love with my bed. But every pregnancy is different. I wanted to share some helpful information about pregnancy insomnia for my fellow sufferers.
General Information:
What is pregnancy insomnia? Inability to fall or stay asleep,
especially in the third trimester of pregnancy.
What causes pregnancy insomnia? A complicated combination
of hormones and a number of unhelpful conditions, such as frequent
urination, persistent heartburn, leg cramps, and pre-birth anxiety
can all cause difficulty sleeping during pregnancy.
What are some ways to cope with insomnia? Warm milk or tea,
relaxing bath, peaceful music, or reading a book.
To be honest, none of these suggestions worked for me. I decided to make the best of a bad situation. Instead of staring into the darkness, I decided to be as productive as possible when awake. I made sure I had activities and projects on hand so I had something to do to keep me busy. Go to "What to Expect" for more information. www.whattoexpect.com/pregnancy/symptoms-and-solutions/insomnia.aspx
I spoke to my OB/GYN about this problem and her only suggestion was to try my best to suffer through it. Believe me, those were not the words I wanted to hear. I wanted something that was going to knock me out! But most medications that would normally be appropriate for this condition are unsafe for pregnant women. The closest sleep aid medication suggested during pregnancy is Benadryl. But even Benadryl should be used with caution.
I didn't experience this with my first pregnancy. In fact, I was tired all of the time. I was seriously in love with my bed. But every pregnancy is different. I wanted to share some helpful information about pregnancy insomnia for my fellow sufferers.
General Information:
What is pregnancy insomnia? Inability to fall or stay asleep,
especially in the third trimester of pregnancy.
What causes pregnancy insomnia? A complicated combination
of hormones and a number of unhelpful conditions, such as frequent
urination, persistent heartburn, leg cramps, and pre-birth anxiety
can all cause difficulty sleeping during pregnancy.
What are some ways to cope with insomnia? Warm milk or tea,
relaxing bath, peaceful music, or reading a book.
To be honest, none of these suggestions worked for me. I decided to make the best of a bad situation. Instead of staring into the darkness, I decided to be as productive as possible when awake. I made sure I had activities and projects on hand so I had something to do to keep me busy. Go to "What to Expect" for more information. www.whattoexpect.com/pregnancy/symptoms-and-solutions/insomnia.aspx
Monday, October 7, 2013
Operation Baby Clothes!!
I have 3 weeks and 1 day left before my little boy arrives and I really need to get busy. This week, I want to organize all the baby clothes and somehow fit them into the same closet as my 4 year old!!! Most people would give their newborns their own room but I'm old fashioned. I'm the 5th child in my family and we all shared rooms until people started to move out...lol. I still remember the time my parents drove us (7 people) from Houston to Cleveland, Ohio in a Dodge Intrepid (a car not a van). Five grown kids all crammed in the same back seat liked sardines. As much as I hated it, I can't deny my heritage...lol. I'm a firm believer in the "cramming technique."
I went to Target this week and bought some closet organization supplies; drop bars, drawers, etc..
I somehow have to cram this....
into this...
Without breaking the bank. We'll see how it goes. Stay tuned :)
I went to Target this week and bought some closet organization supplies; drop bars, drawers, etc..
I somehow have to cram this....
into this...
Without breaking the bank. We'll see how it goes. Stay tuned :)
Sunday, October 6, 2013
Welcome!!
Hi everyone!! Welcome to my page. Sharron's Take is a blog about my life and the things I find interesting (family, friends, food, etc). I am currently 37 weeks pregnant with my second child. I'm beginning to get excited. I know most people blog or vlog their entire pregnancy but I figure better late than never...lol. This first post is dedicated to everyone with the courage to begin something new and different. Stay tuned :)
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